Choosing the Right Funeral Flowers: A Guide for Families

Funeral flowers are more than just arrangements — they’re personal expressions of love, respect, and remembrance. Choosing the right tribute can feel overwhelming during a difficult time, especially when there are so many styles and traditions to consider.

At Kim e Fleurs, we understand how meaningful each choice can be, and we’re here to help you create something fitting, personal, and heartfelt.

Here’s a simple guide to help families choose the right flowers for a loved one’s farewell.

1. Understand the Different Types of Funeral Arrangements

There are several floral tribute styles, each designed for different settings and meanings:

• Coffin Sprays: Large arrangements that rest on top of the casket. These can be single-ended or double-ended, often chosen by close family members.
• Wreaths: Circular designs symbolising eternal life. Wreaths can be laid at the service, placed at the graveside, or sent in memory.
• Letter Tributes: Spelled-out names or titles like “MUM” or “GRANDAD”, made using based flowers with a corsage on each letter. A touching personal gesture from family or close friends.
• Hearts and Cushions: Represent love, comfort, and peace. Often chosen by children, grandchildren, or close loved ones.
• Sheaves and Posies: Hand-tied, more natural designs — perfect for cremations or as a tribute from friends or extended family.

2. Choose Flowers with Meaning

Each flower carries a unique symbolism. You may wish to select blooms that reflect your loved one’s personality, favourite colours, or a shared memory.

Here are a few common choices:

• Roses: Love and remembrance
• Lilies: Peace, purity, and renewal
• Carnations: Admiration and affection
• Chrysanthemums: Loyalty and respect
• Gerberas: Cheerfulness and warmth

Not sure what to choose? We’re always happy to suggest something meaningful and bespoke.

3. Consider the Colour Theme

Colour plays a big part in funeral flower symbolism:

• White: Peace, purity, and reverence
• Red: Love and respect
• Pink: Admiration and grace
• Yellow: Warmth and remembrance
• Blue/Purple: Dignity and calm

You can also personalise the tribute by choosing your loved one’s favourite colours or tones that reflect their spirit.

4. Who Is the Tribute From?

Some arrangements are typically chosen by immediate family, while others may come from friends or colleagues. If you’re unsure, here’s a helpful guide:

• Close family: Coffin sprays, letter tributes, hearts, and cushions
• Grandchildren, siblings, nieces/nephews: Wreaths, posies, personalised shapes
• Friends, neighbours, co-workers: Hand-tied sheaves, baskets, or simple sprays

If you’re ever unsure, we can advise on what’s appropriate for your relationship.

5. Personalise When You Can

The most touching tributes are often those with personal meaning — a favourite flower, a colour that reminds you of them, or even a bespoke design like a hobby, name, or symbol.

At Kim e Fleurs, we specialise in bespoke funeral tributes. Whether it’s a custom colour palette, floral lettering, or a tribute that reflects your loved one’s passion, we’ll work with you to make something truly special.

Final Thoughts

Choosing funeral flowers is never easy, but it can be a beautiful way to say goodbye. We’re here to guide you with compassion, care, and many years of experience.

💐 If you’re not sure where to start, feel free to browse our Funeral Flowers collection or contact us directly to discuss your needs.

Every arrangement is made with love — because we believe flowers should always speak from the heart.